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What does it mean to be asexual?

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Hi doctor,

I think I might be asexual, but I still want to feel sexual attraction. It is not that I hate or repulse the idea of sex. It just does not call me that much. I feel as if I am missing something by not feeling sexual attraction. Maybe this lack of attraction can come from fear or something similar. Or am I just asexual? I really want to feel attraction, and I feel that I am starting to obsess with the idea of not having attraction. I am 19 years old and have liked guys in the past. However, it has been four years since I had those feelings. Maybe I am emotionally numb too?
Answered by Dr. Ruhi Satija

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Dr. Ruhi Satija is a Psychologist and Psychotherapist skilled in assessing, diagnosing, and treating a wide range of mental health and emotional issues. Her expertise includes cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, stress and anxiety management, depression treatment, trauma-focused therapy, and counseling for relationship or personal challenges. She is experienced in helping individuals, couples, and families develop coping strategies, improve emotional well-being, and achieve personal growth.

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Hi,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

From the information you sent, it seems to me that you did have a desire earlier. But I think the experiences you had, made you either not interested or may be overwhelmed. You have a hold on your current thoughts and how your past relationships worked and impacted you. I would suggest you talk to a therapist and find out your mental and emotional blocks. Once you resolve them, you should be able to become your best self. Then you will find the right partner for yourself. And once you meet the right person, the feelings will develop. If you are willing, we can talk in detail, and I can help you. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions.

Take care of yourself.

Medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team
Published At September 19, 2022
Reviewed At January 10, 2024

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Professional Bio:

Dr. Ruhi Satija is a Psychologist and Psychotherapist skilled in assessing, diagnosing, and treating a wide range of mental health and emotional issues. Her expertise includes cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, stress and anxiety management, depression treatment, trauma-focused therapy, and counseling for relationship or personal challenges. She is experienced in helping individuals, couples, and families develop coping strategies, improve emotional well-being, and achieve personal growth.

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Dr. Ruhi Satija
Dr. Ruhi Satija

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Education:

MD

Professional Bio:

Dr. Ruhi Satija is a Psychologist and Psychotherapist skilled in assessing, diagnosing, and treating a wide range of mental health and emotional issues. Her expertise includes cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, stress and anxiety management, depression treatment, trauma-focused therapy, and counseling for relationship or personal challenges. She is experienced in helping individuals, couples, and families develop coping strategies, improve emotional well-being, and achieve personal growth.

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