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How to restore the libido lost due to watching excessive porn and masturbation?

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Hello doctor,

I wanted to ask you about erection or libido issues. I am currently in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend for the past few years. I watch more pornography when we are not together. I had some problems getting an erection for the past few weeks. My spontaneous erections had decreased as also my morning ones and my desire, in general, had also decreased. It happened to me before, but after managing to have sex it disappeared, so I thought of it as psychological. But now it has come back again. I do not feel any desire, and when I try to stimulate myself, an erection happens but quite mechanically, with no real desire or urge. Please suggest me the treatment. Should I only masturbate without watching pornography? Or should I stop masturbating even without pornography and just wait for the desire to come back?

Please help.

Answered by Dr. Vandana Patidar

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Vandana Patidar is a compassionate psychiatrist and psychotherapist dedicated to promoting mental health and emotional well-being. She provides patient-centered care for conditions such as anxiety, depression, stress, sleep disorders, and relationship concerns. With expertise in psychotherapy and counseling, Dr. Patidar combines evidence-based approaches with empathetic guidance to help individuals build resilience and achieve balance in their lives.

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Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I went through your query and understood your concern.

Sex is initiated by an urge or desire to do an activity called libido. Usually, when one regularly involves in some particular kind of sexual activity or uses particular fantasies like pornography watching and masturbation, the intensity of libido decreases over time. I suggest you take a break from masturbation, pornography watching, etc., for some time. Your libido will increase, resulting in a good erection.

I hope this has helped you.

Thanks and regards.

Medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team
Published At March 8, 2023
Reviewed At December 26, 2023

Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Vandana Patidar is a compassionate psychiatrist and psychotherapist dedicated to promoting mental health and emotional well-being. She provides patient-centered care for conditions such as anxiety, depression, stress, sleep disorders, and relationship concerns. With expertise in psychotherapy and counseling, Dr. Patidar combines evidence-based approaches with empathetic guidance to help individuals build resilience and achieve balance in their lives.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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Education:

MBBS

Professional Bio:

Dr. Vandana Patidar is a compassionate psychiatrist and psychotherapist dedicated to promoting mental health and emotional well-being. She provides patient-centered care for conditions such as anxiety, depression, stress, sleep disorders, and relationship concerns. With expertise in psychotherapy and counseling, Dr. Patidar combines evidence-based approaches with empathetic guidance to help individuals build resilience and achieve balance in their lives.

This doctor is not available for online consultations on the platform anymore.

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