What could be the reason for my husband's lack of interest in intimacy?

Question

Hello doctor,

My marital relationship was not good due to my husband's lack of interest in intimacy, and also, our intercourse was not complete because of his lower erection. I cannot discuss this with my husband he is not ready to listen to this matter. We had only three years of marriage life and six months of baby. But this matter ruins our life.

Kindly advice.

Answer 1

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

There are a few things you should know about this condition. First of all, if ejaculation happens two minutes before sex, we call it premature ejaculation.

There are two types one is,

1. Primary type (It is from the beginning of sex life, usually kind of a genetic condition).

2. Secondary type (usually due to some risk factors like performance anxiety, overweight, stress, or thyroid disorder).

3. Vitamin D deficiency also can contribute. Around 20 percent of males have this condition, treatment wise there are natural methods, including pelvic strengthening exercises, certain diet changes, and ayurvedic supplements. Natural methods will help, and the effect is long-standing, but it may take time to show its effect. Till then, medicines may be necessary.

So a combination of both will be required, just taking medicines will solve the issue as long as you are on medicines but for a long-lasting cure, start the natural methods too so that once you stop medicines effect persists, I will suggest both.